Not sure what “hurt” has to do with it, but:
Ve’ve haf ways to make you be quiet (or at least purr contentedly).
Much more effective than pain.
Deep Tissue works for me
At the risk of sounding like Grandpa Simpson… a single point-focused “elbow” session took down a hobbling, painful, two-month experience with sciatica (that no other therapy was touching) by something like 70%, and another a week later relieved it completely. It was like miracle relief. Whenever I feel it coming back (maybe once a year) I ask my wife to give my haunch the long elbow, and I’m back to normal the next day. I’m a believer.
I have yet to meet the woman who could carry on a conversation during a good foot rub.
Never try to shut your wife up. Just listen and don’t say anything. Sometimes they will get even madder. Just sit and listen and the subject of the argument will constantly change till she will run down eventually. Next day she will feel better. All because you let her vent.
When my wife gets mad at me she doesn’t talk to me for three or four days and thinks she’s punishing me, sometimes I piss her off on purpose 😉
Early in marriage I found, it doesn’t take two to make an argument.
After decades of man hating, us men don’t care about you, OR your feelings. Us men will just walk away and let you change your own tire, open your own doors, and live alone with your cats (no one else will tolerate you).
My GF has been telling me how many of the young women (20’s and 30’s) where she works keep asking “Where have all the good men gone?”
She sees how some of them treat men as if they were nothing more than “a doormat with money”, then wonder why they don’t hang around.
Treat a group bad enough and they will stop socializing with you, will “pull themselves off the market”, in effect Going Galt.
As a related aside, one of her coworkers asked why men hate women, rather than loving them. She said she replied with something along the lines of “Don’t think that hate is the opposite of love. It isn’t. The opposite of love is indifference and you and your friends have shown your indifference to them. Why should they love you when you don’t love them?”
Lord, I wouldn’t want to be a young man dating in today’s atmosphere.
This is nothing new. I was in college in the 70s, Bio Major. The New Bio building had a tricky door between the staircase and the lobby. It would snap shut with considerable force. One afternoon between lectures, I came through and seeing a young lady (I thought) with an armload of books behind me, I courteously held the door as I had been brought up to do. As she walked past she gave me a dirty look, and muttered “Male chauvinist pig”.
A few days later, a similar situation presented itself. Same female (she was NO lady). I walked through the door, let go, and the door smacked into her, knocked her on her butt, and scattered her books. She said several un-lady like things and demanded to know why I hadn’t held the door. I replied that since she reacted so negatively to simple courtesy, why should I offer myself for more abuse. Wimmens Libbers, a curse on us all.
In Heinlein’s “To Sail Beyond the Sunset” Maureen Johnson gives a quick summation of women who are unable to accept the simple gallantries men are taught to offer. I will research and post it .
I have a permanent reminder of such an event.
I was visiting my youngest sister at one of those prestigious women’s colleges in the People’s Republic of Massachusetts. It was early spring in 1980. (Or was it 1981?)
I made a similar mistake – opening a door for a couple of young woman leaving one of the campus buildings – and in this case I ended up with a broken forearm for my troubles when one of them hit the arm with which I was holding the door open while screaming “I don’t need your help, pig!”
My sister later paid her a visit and “thrashed her severely about the head and shoulders with a clenched fist”.
In case you’re wondering, yes, I pressed charges (assault and battery). To make a long drawn out story short, her attorney tried to get me to drop the charges. I said I would, but under one condition: She had to publicly apologize for the assault and admit her overreaction.
She went to trial, was convicted, and sentenced to 90 days plus restitution for my medical costs (at my request to the prosecutor since she could have easily gotten 2 years). She was also expelled from that prestigious women’s college. I don’t think it was so much for the assault so much as it put that prestigious women’s college in a bad light, i.e. she got caught.
That’s nothing new. Women were asking where all the good men had gone back in the 80s.
“Where have all the good men gone
And where are all the gods?
Where’s the streetwise Hercules
To fight the rising odds?” Bonnie Tyler 1984
The desired end state of the Globalists is to rule over a charred cinder once known as the planet Earth, it is as if a true alien invasion has descended upon us. And how, you ask, does a war between the sexes further that cause? Because the family unit is the basis of civilization. After decades of persecution in the unconstitutional ‘family courts’ there is a significant and growing movement among ostracized males to reject all forms of ‘Modern Women’, to self isolate from women and the world they have (with the help of the Globalists) created furthering the goals of the globalists.
That’s being called MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way).
I’m more of a lurker than someone who posts, but I thought I would post what ‘MasterDiver referenced from Heinlein’s “To Sail Beyond the Sunset”.
(this text is ripped from an unofficial source so I don’t have the proper page number, I believe it’s in Chapter 17 – Starting Over)
I did not plan to be aggressive about it. If a gentleman held a door for me, I would accept the courtesy and thank him. Gentlemen enjoy offering little gallantries; and lady enjoys accepting them graciously, with a smile and a word of thanks.
I mention this because, by the 1970s, there were many females who would snub a man unmercifully if he offered a gallantry, such as holding a chair for a woman, or offering to help per in or out of a car. These women (a minority but a ubiquitous, obnoxious one) treated traditional courtesy as if it were an insult. I grew to think of these females as the lesbian Mafia. I don’t know that all of them were homosexual (although I’m certain about some of them) but their behaviour caused me to lump them all together.
If some of them were not lesbians, then where did they find heterosexual mates? What sort of wimp would put up with this sort of rudeness in women? I am sorry to say that by 1970 there were plenty of wimps of every sort. The wimps were taking over. Manly men, gallant gentlemen, the sort who do not wait to be drafted, were growing scarce.
Many women who behaved as such are now living alone.
In Sweden (and elsewhere) they intentionally imported rapists who are known to copulate with anyone, often when they are unwilling.
Further collateral damage. But it also is following someone’s religious code.
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